Never Forget That Jesus Loves You

Every day we need to be reminded that Jesus loves us.  Today is no different.  Satan, our adversary, never gives up on looking for strategies to attack our self-worth, so we need to be as vigilant in reminding him that we know who we are in Christ! As you play this audio/video, allow God’s word’s to penetrate your heart. Be blessed and always enjoy the good life in Christ!

Yours sister in Christ!

Stephanie R. Singleton


Scheduling Conflicts

Does your schedule revolve around Jesus or do you try to fit Jesus into your schedule?  This was a question that was presented in a recent devotional that I read.  This thought provoking idea lingered in my mind for several days.  I would guess that most people that consider themselves Christians, would answer that Jesus is the center of their world. Therefore, everything that they do has to revolve around Jesus right?  

But let’s pause for a moment and get real with ourselves. We need to take a serious look at our calendars.  What activities consume the majority of our time? If it is difficult for you to determine this, separate it into several categories. My categories would be: work, business, social outings, church events, prayer time, bible study, kid’s sports……If I placed these sections on a pie chart, I would easily be able to see what part of my life has the biggest slice of pie. This visual may surprise us if we find out that “Jesus Time” is missing in our calendars and we now have to figure out where to fit this quality time.

Christ wants us to enjoy life.  Scripture says in John 10:10 that Christ came, so that we can live an abundant life. That is a life full of love, joy, peace, long suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness and temperance.  These are the fruits of the spirit and evidence of an abundant life.  How are you measuring up?

So now that you have an idea of where you spend most of your time, the second step is to ask yourself if these activities are causing you to draw closer to God or are they taking time away from you spending time with God?  Is God an afterthought when you are engaged in these activities or is His presence evident?  

One of my favorite scriptures is Proverbs 3:6. It says, “In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths.” This verse always challenges me to make sure that Christ has co-signed on my endeavors.  I know that I can easily get caught up in doing things my way in order to get things accomplished.  My ambition can easily get self-centered instead of remaining  Christ-centered. If my calendar is mostly filled with events and activities that don’t have Christ in the mix, than I know that my life is unbalanced. 

As Christians, our sole desire must be to live a life that is pleasing to God; therefore checking to see if we have “scheduling conflicts” is something that we need to do often.  Seeking God first and acknowledging Him in our daily routines is the only way that we can avoid these conflicts.  With His help, our lives will be full and we can all enjoy the good life in Christ!


Your sister in Christ!

Stephanie Singleton


Prayer Starter:  Please forgive me Lord, when my priorities have not been in order. Help me to seek you first in everything that I do and show me the way to live an abundant life.  Reveal to me the areas that are not in balance and that need to be shifted in order to be in alignment with your plans.  You are my Father and I want to live a life that pleases you.  Amen

Start Your Day With Jesus

If you are like me, it takes focus for me to organize my day.  I am a mom, wife, daughter, friend, teacher, colleague, ministry leader, business owner… and the list goes on and on.  On any given day, some of these roles takes precedence over the other and sometimes it is difficult to keep them balanced. But within all of these roles, Jesus always needs to be the center of our world and the focus of everything that we do.  Once we get our priorities together, then we will be able to follow HIS PLANS and everything else will be in order.

We can easily get distracted and forget to put Christ ahead of everything else. Our intentions are never to neglect our first love, but when we focus on the wrong things, those areas receive the attention that should be given to Jesus.  I want to share the acronym P.R.A.Y with you so that you can keep it beside your bed or use it as a screensaver to remind you to start your day off with Jesus! 

Enjoy the good life in Christ!



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The Perfect Love Letter

Today, many people around the world are celebrating their love for one another.  Some have been busy making plans for several weeks and others are still trying to think of creative methods to show their appreciation for those that they care about.  But, in the busyness of focusing our attention on those around us, we cannot forget to show our love and appreciation for our Heavenly Father.  He is the one who first loved us and the one who loves us most of all.

In celebration of today, I would like to share something that I came across entitled,  “Father’s Love Letter.”  It shares God’s love through scriptures and guides us to experiencing His unconditional love.  I pray that this is a blessing for you and that you never forget that you are loved, that you are special and that you are worth feeling appreciated.

Your sister in Christ,

Stephanie R. Singleton




Laughter is Good For You

A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a broken spirit saps a person’s strength. Proverbs 17:22

With all of the woes that we experience in life, it is great to have opportunities to laugh. Anytime that we turn on the television or scroll through the pages of social media, there never appears to be any shortage of stories that tug at our hearts and remind us to pray.  For this reason, laughter can be a natural anecdote that can be used to lift our spirits and heal our hearts. 

In order to bring some laughter into your life today, I decided to share a couple of things that I found both humorous and pause moment worthy. I hope that you enjoy them as much as I did. 

Be blessed and enjoy the good life in Christ!



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If Jesus Were Sitting Next To Me….. 2018

I recently posed this self-reflective question at an event, “If Jesus were sitting next to you right now, what advice would he give you?”  As I reflect on 2017 and embrace 2018, I have to ponder the answer to this question for my own life.  Yes, 2017 came with many challenges, but there were many blessings as well.  There were some sorrows that I endured and I also experienced some momentous occasions. But throughout every experience, there was always one constant. Jesus was orchestrating my life and for that, I give Him praise. Read more

What is Your Motivation?

Read Daniel 1

As I began to prepare for the Daniel Fast this year, I came across something that I had not paid attention to prior to this year.  I kept noticing the words, Daniel Plan and Daniel Fast mentioned in secular articles. Growing up in the church, I always heard of the Daniel Fast, but it hasn’t been until recent years, that this seems to be a growing movement. More people are choosing to start the year off with this type of fast. This is a trend both inside and outside of the church.  Since Daniel is a role model for us in the Christian faith, I had to pause and ask myself, why is this movement growing in the secular culture as well? Read more

It’s Time to Tune out Distractions

Recently, PAUSE66 hosted their winter “Shades of You” event with a Ladies Paint Night.  The theme was, “The Vision to Excellence: What Path are You Following in 2018?” This was explored by giving the ladies an opportunity to reflect on the challenges that they encountered during the year. Afterwards, they wrote those obstacles on a canvas and painted “red bottom shoes,” to symbolize the trail that they will follow in 2018. Read more

My Special Gift

 Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him. Psalms 127:3  


Those of us that have been blessed with the responsibility of parenthood can probably spend many hours sharing stories about the numerous funny moments raising children.  If we stop to think about it, many of those times that cause us to break out in hysterical laughter or that cause us frustration can become teachable moments if we allow ourselves time to pause and open our ears to what God may be using our kids to teach us. Read more

Focusing on Truth, Honesty and Purity

As I am writing this blog, it 2:16 a.m. and I got out of bed because I was tossing and turning because my heart is heavy. During the last several days of scrolling through social media, I have been inundated by countless examples of the “inhumanity of man.” One image showed the disfigured face of a twelve year girl, who had been scolded by hot water at a sleepover.  Another article described how a three-year old died, as a result of being repeatedly hit in the head by her mother’s boyfriend. Lastly, I do not believe anyone has escaped seeing or hearing about the recent acts of racism displayed in Charlottesville, Va.  Adding to this incident, a friend contacted me after she heard that a group of men were doing other perceived racist acts in the community, where I work, that appear to celebrate the Charlottesville tragedy. Read more